上海快3

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家长告状后……

作者:许丽萍 来源:本站原创 发布时间:2018年06月08日 点击数:

【督导背景】

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【实施过程】

1.两头做工作,家园共育重沟通

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2.方法来支撑,促进发展赢信任

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其一要把握好正强化和负强化的关系。正强化即表扬和奖赏,负强化即批评和惩罚,我国传统文化中的“恩威并施”说的就是这个道理。正强化运用时应该注意:一是对待孩子的表扬应具体,而不是一味地说“你真棒”,还要适时提出一些具体建议,如“你今天做的娃娃家的妈妈很会招待客人,如果再用上礼貌的话语就更好了。”二是辅之以体态、眼神等,如一个亲密的拥抱、拉手、抚摩、点头、击掌等也能给孩子带来肯定的自信;三是巧用故事的作用,如针对幼儿不讲礼貌的行为,教师可选择《金花学说话》等作品。负强化运用时应该注意:一是不当众批评,伤害幼儿自尊;二是注意批评后的交流,保护幼儿的心灵。

其二要把握好公平和偏袒的关系。上海快3亚当斯的公平理论认为,人们感觉不公,就会影响积极性。在激励的公平上,教师要做到一视同仁,不偏颇、不忽视;在激励的偏袒上,要多关注特殊幼儿,激励他们的点滴进步,调动他们的积极情感,引导幼儿向着好的方面发展。

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【案例分析】

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1.督学工作需要管理的智慧。上海快3从本次家长告状事件来看,如果我处理不好,家长很有可能会再对上告状,造成更坏的影响。因此,及时正确地处理好矛盾,可以将火苗熄灭在萌芽状态。

2.督学工作需要专业的引领。该园作为一家民办幼儿园,在师资配备和师德培训方面较为薄弱,作为一名每月至少去一次的督学人员,可以在这个方面发挥专业的引领作用。在本次事件中,我通过协调沟通、专题讲座的方法化解了矛盾,既解决了眼前的矛盾,又教给了正确的方法,有效杜绝今后类似事件的发生。

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